Personality Patterns
« Previous EntriesAs We Become More Conscious In Life
Tuesday, March 8th, 2011As we become more conscious of life as an expression of our karma and our own free choice, we have the opportunity to take responsibility for the pain and fear we carry and make the decision to let it go. Suffering is relieved when we can express and release what is imprisoned […]
Effects of Abuse and Neglect in the Relational Dimension
Thursday, January 20th, 2011A more common case of effects of abuse and neglect in the relational
dimension, occurs when one partner is avoiding painful and frightening issues in the Physical, Psychological and Relational dimensions by escaping into the three nonordinary dimensions without being grounded in the lower dimensions. Often such patients will choose partners who are at […]
Scapegoats
Thursday, January 6th, 2011Another person can help us by meeting some of our current needs, but no one can ever complete us or restore that which we have disowned. It doesn’t help us or the harmony of the world to scapegoat another for failing to make up for past abuse and neglect or for lacking qualities […]
Conscious Behavior as an Adult
Tuesday, January 4th, 2011To the extent that we are conscious of our behavior, adult relationships give us an opportunity to develop greater awareness and control over our Relational life than we had as children. When we feel critical of another person, we can be sure that this person is reflecting back at us an attribute […]
Abuse and Mental Illness
Thursday, December 9th, 2010In the presence of pre-existing neuropsychiatric disorders, abuse experiences can have a devastating impact. With additional complications that diminish the child’s capacity to cope. A child with a genetic predisposition to Bipolar Disorder or Schizophrenia, for example, is already supersensitive to stress, especially in relationship to others, and therefore will […]
INTRODUCTION FROM A SEVERELY ABUSED PATIENT’S PERSPECTIVE
Thursday, September 16th, 2010This Introduction to Big Heart Healing A Multidimensional Approach To Trauma And Abuse is written by “Ken” a Severely Abused Patient
“I’ll chase you across all time, through hell itself, until you get it right.” Yup, that was my Karmic vow, my curse on my mother – and myself – before I was born. […]
Big Heart Healing: A Multidimensional Approach to Trauma and Abuse
Tuesday, September 14th, 2010Big Heart Healing: A Multidimensional Approach to Trauma and Abuse—A breakthrough book has just come out that will be a revelation to victims of trauma and abuse – whether physical, emotional, sexual or spiritual – as well as to the therapists who treat them. Dr. Stephen Proskauer takes the reader on […]
Adult Relationships
Saturday, February 13th, 2010In one couple, the husband had been a Zen meditator for many years, focusing on the Transcendent dimension, and would not have anything to do with his wife’s Energetic healing practice, which he saw as delusional and unenlightened. For her part, she regarded his meditation as too risky because she […]
Extreme Circumstances and Profound Splits
Wednesday, February 10th, 2010A profound split can arise in response to extreme circumstances of pain and fear, when we protect our spirits from enduring intolerable agony and terror by partial dissociation of soul energy from our bodies. This form of dissociation amounts to an abandonment of the body and there is a high karmic price to pay, including […]
Limiting Beliefs Held in the Body and Mind
Monday, February 8th, 2010When we are unwilling or unable to face and integrate a difficult experience, the
memory of the event can be split off from awareness in the form of tension or pain frozen in the body, causing physical symptoms, and associated limiting beliefs held in the mind that can generate personality problems. The process of splitting off […]